AOP: What is your greatest source of motivation as a mother?
Nitika: My greatest motivation as a mother comes from the responsibility of helping Pankti grow into a kind and thoughtful person. For me, that means guiding her to be respectful, compassionate, and mindful of others, even in the smallest moments — and nothing motivates me more than seeing the smile on her face when she feels proud or happy.
AOP: What do you see as your greatest strength?
Nitika: I’d say my greatest strength as a mother is the intuition I’ve developed with my daughter. It feels almost magical at times — I can sense what she’s thinking or feeling, often before she even says a word. I know when she’s hungry, when she’s getting sleepy, and the little things that will instantly bring a smile to her face.
This connection really does feel like a superpower of motherhood. It allows me to nurture her with love, comfort, and understanding every single day, and it’s a bond I treasure deeply.
AOP: What is your biggest fear?
Nitika: My biggest fear is that anything could compromise my daughter’s safety, health, or happiness. I just want to protect her from harm and make sure she always feels secure, cared for, and deeply loved. Knowing she is safe and thriving gives me peace of mind, and it’s truly at the heart of everything I do as a mother.
At the same time, I remind myself that motherhood isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present. As long as I keep listening to her, understanding her feelings, and celebrating her little joys (like the pride she takes in a not‑so‑perfect drawing), I know I’m giving her the foundation she needs to grow with confidence and joy.
AOP: So far, as a mom, what is the most important lesson you have learned?
Nitika: The most important lesson I’ve learned as a mother is how much it has deepened my bond with my own mom. Becoming a mother myself has given me a whole new appreciation for everything she did for me. Now I truly understand the sacrifices she made, the worries she carried, and the unconditional love a mother feels for her child.
Motherhood has opened my eyes to her strength and patience in ways I never noticed before, and it has made me value her more than ever. It’s almost like I’m experiencing her love all over again, but this time from the other side.
AOP: What advice would you give other parents who are navigating their parenting journey?
Nitika: I think the most important thing is to remember that our job is to create the right environment for our children to grow. I don’t believe in pressuring my daughter to pursue one activity or another, but I do believe in giving her opportunities to explore. Whether it’s art, music, or simply playing outside, I want her to discover what makes her happy and confident on her own terms.
I also believe it’s so important to spend as much time as possible with our kids while they’re growing. The more time we share with them, the more naturally we pass on our values and show them, through everyday moments, what really matters in life.
For me, parenting is about providing love, guidance, and a safe space where she feels free to try, fail, and try again. When children are given that kind of environment, they naturally grow into their best selves.
AOP: What do you want your child to remember about you?
Nitika: The one thing I want my daughter to always remember is how deeply her parents love her. I want her to know that our love isn’t just for today, but for every stage of her life — something she can always count on as a source of support, comfort, and joy. I hope she carries with her the feeling that we will do anything to keep her safe, happy, and fulfilled — not just now, but always.
AOP: How do you prioritize your own needs while parenting?
Nitika: Honestly, I don’t quite know how to answer this because for the last five and a half years — including my pregnancy — my world has revolved around my daughter. And I have no complaints about it. In fact, I see this as the most beautiful time of my life.
Motherhood has shifted my priorities completely, and right now my needs feel naturally aligned with hers. I know there will come a time when I’ll focus more on myself again, but at this stage, being fully present for her is what fulfills me the most.
Rapid Fire Questions
- Summer or Winter? Summer
- Favorite color? Red
- Quiet nook or large gathering? Quiet nook
- Dream vacation location? Switzerland
- One phrase to describe yourself? Family Person
Nitika Sharma loves being a mother and cherishes her role as such to her 4‑year‑old daughter, Pankti Kalgotra. She is the wife of Dr. Pankush Kalgotra, who is an Associate Professor at Auburn University. She was born and raised in India and after marrying Pankush, they relocated to the United States for his academic career.
This family of three is thriving in Auburn, and they are grateful every day for the journey that brought them from India to the US. They love traveling and exploring new places because it allows them to spend quality time together and create lasting memories.
Author: Staff
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